Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Humans - Where are they disappearing?

When we look around ourselves, we find that we are surrounded with Humanoids.  Only a few of them are humans whom you can trust and over the years it is increasingly becoming tough to distinguish between the Humans and Humanoids.  But, Yes the Humans do exist in this crowd of Humanoids.

You might be wondering why am I using the word Humanoids because they are rogue, they are vague and they are someone who you might think to know, but in actuality you don't know them.  They are someone who would use you, just for their entertainment and would just think of you as a means or a medium or a commodity to make their ends meet.  Are you thinking I would rather use the word Pest, then NO, I don't want to use words that mean more than what I want to convey. The reason of Humanoids as my choice here is for the reason that such people around you show their Love, Compassion and their Interest in you and what you do and who you are, they try to please you and then at the end when their ends are met, they would just throw you out of their life as they throw the waste from their body.
There actually are many varieties of Humanoids, some use you for Emotional support, some for Financial, some for Physical and  well then the Hybrid Humanoids. Here the most complex is the ones that use you for Emotional Support but are of Hybrid kinds. When you get comforted in their company and start trusting them, somewhere from their Background Comes the sound of a big thud and you realize - Holy Cow, what am I doing, whom was I trusting and what all I blurted out.  At that moment you feel totally miserable because by that time you would definitely have had entered into a sort of relationship with such at the least One person with whom you would have entered a platonic relationship and would have had physical relations.  Well it might happen and that's life of us the Human Beings. In such cases, the way out is really difficult as Such a Humanoid may actually become a PEST. (hope you would not understand why I didn't want to use the word pest earlier :) )

Sometimes it happens that a Humanoid around you catches you on your weak point, gets up and close with you emotionally and physically, looks to get your support and then there when you start sharing your feelings with such a Humanoid, you get to hear from certain quarters that the Humanoid has really been complaining around of your "Double Standards".  Interesting?? huh!!! Well yeah telling you and telling the people around that though the Humanoid Loves you, you love someone else and when Humanoid wants to share time with you, you share stories of your Love with Humanoid.  Well, yeah that happens.  This is where I, in the second part of the previous paragraph said - "At that point you feel totally miserable".... Yes this is the point I was referring to there. 

So, what should one do in case of getting stuck with a Humanoid?  I would suggest Play along, with Caution of Not to Blurt out your secrets.  This does not mean that you should let the other person use you whether Emotionally or Physically.  I understand it is very difficult to identify between Human and Humanoid, so I wouldn't call it your fault to fall in the trap.  What you should do in case you fall pray to such a Humanoid, is not to fight to come out of the web of the Humanoid, because it is like a spider web or say quick sand, more you try to come out of it more you get entangled in it>  It is advisable here to make cautious moves to slowly and steadily distance yourself from the Humanoid.  Please be Extra Cautious in case of the Emotional Humanoids as they may claim distress, depression and mental trauma because of your act and blame you for their misery.

Few things to take care of when playing along with the Humanoids - 
  1. Don't Trust them on what they say as they say something and mean something
  2. Don't counter them right out, instead your gestures and expressions should be supportive and understanding
  3. Try to make them believe that you are with them and you would go all out to do anything for them. You need not do anything not even pick up a pebble. You can always highlight one or other genuine reason for your incapacitation.
  4. Gradually distance yourself from them with decreased communication and decreased communication channels with them
  5. Never in life discuss your personal matters with them post you identify them as Humanoid, else they may go extra-mile to exploit you and your situation
Thoughts Above are mere thoughts of the Author and there is no connection to any living or dead. Anyone taking this post personal is advised not to do so as neither the author has any connection with you of that sorts nor you have any connection with the author.

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