गुजारीश वफ़ा-ए-सनम से

गुजारिश आज आपसे है ऐ सनम
दे सको तो देना खुशी न देना गम
कि गम का समंदर होता बहुत गहरा है
माझी तो छोडिये साहिल तक डूब जाता है

कि गम-ऐ-उल्फत में हम ना जी सकेंगे
तेरी तनहाई में जाम भी ना पी सकेंगे
कि पैमाना भी जब उठाते हैं
कमबख्त उसमें भी तेरा अक्स नज़र आता है

सोचते हैं कि धुंए में गम को छोड़ देंगे
लेकिन डर है कहीं धुएँ में तेरी तस्वीर ना नज़र आए
डर की दुनिया में हम कब तक जीते जाएंगे
क्या कभी तेरी बेवफाई से निजात पा सकेंगे

अब गर चाहत ये है ऐ सनम
कि ना रुसवा हो हमारी मोहब्बत
और ना कहे ये दुनिया हमें दीवाना
तो दे मुझे अपनी मोहब्बत कि खुशी

गुजारिश यही है तुझसे ऐ सनम
दे सके तो देना खुशी ना देना गम
कि गम के साए में बेजार होगी ज़िन्दगी
बेआबरू होंगे हम और बेवफा कहलोगी तुम

What You Feel is What it Hurts

Hurts, from where does the hurt origin??does it origin from the acts of others?? or do they just originate out of our own perceptions and our own belief and our own convictions????

What I feel is the hurt originates from our own feelings as our feelings originates from our perceptions based on our belief...and so on and so forth

Continuing from my previous blog where I had talked about the correlations, well et see the correlations that run thru our own mind and the way we perceive things the way we want to... Just go back and think of a situation in which you hear some girls/guys laughing when u are crossing them, and for a flash of of a second the thought in ur mind prevails and u ask a question to yourself - "Were they Laughing at me?" Now there could be a MAY BE and a MAY BE NOT, but then you are hurt for that 50% chance of the MAY BE....

So if we can bury such unnecessary hassels in life and proceed, half of the pain in life would be gone turning itself into pleasure...

So STOP BOTHERING YOURSELF AND BEING JUDGEMENTAL to GIVE PAIN TO OTHERS

Originally written on 1st of May 2006....

Relation and Correlation

Looking around onself what I find is there exist relations and on the top of many more Coorelations....For any one instance if there is one relation between me and the person X, then the correlations for various situations as perceived by various people would be a phenominally hight...

Lets take a simple example of the relation between person x and person y....and imagine that there are 10 scenarios observerd by 10 people. now lets see how many Correlations exist -

10 * 10 from Xs perspective
10 * 10 from Ys perspective
100 * 100 overall

Now looking at this the scene gets compliated further ahead. Its very complex a situation when we start calculating because everytime there is a analysis of the situation and the relation, there is a different perspective coming out of it...I dunno but people really like to do POST MORTOM of various incidents and various situations...and many a times they even make things worse between X and Y by unnecessary and unrelevant comments and analytical skill show.

I dunno when will this end...may be when X and Y would leave world cause they would not be bothered by these analysis and Post Mortom by the people around....

People need to Grow UP

This was originally written on 30th April 2006......in the original Form

WHICH INDIAN CITY DO YOU BELONG TO

Take a nice Trip around the Country in just 8 scenario. I really loved this Fun / Pun intended mail I recd.

Scenario 1
Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes along, then a fourth and.
They start arguing about who's right.
You are in KOLKATA

Scenario 2
Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes along & tries to make
peace.Thefirst two get together & beat him up.
That's DELHI


Scenario 3
Two guys are fighting. Both of them take time out and call their Friends on
mobile. Now 50 guys are fighting.
You are in AMRITSAR

Scenario 4
Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes along,sees them and walks on.
That's MUMBAI

Scenario 5
Two guys are fighting. Third guy comes along with a carton of beer. All sit
together drinking beer and abusing each other and all go home being friends.
You are in GOA

Scenario 6
Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes he writes a software Program to
stop the fight. But the fight doesn't stop b'cos of a bug in the program.
That's BANGALORE

Scenario 7
Two guys are fighting. A crowd gathers to watch. A guy comes along and
quietly says that "AMMA" doesn't like all this nonsense. Peace comes in.
That's CHENNAI

Scenario 8
Two guys are fighting. A crowd gathers to watch. A guy comes along and
quietly opens a tea-stall & a thattukada (dhaba)...
U R NOW IN KERALA

Partition of India - Religious or Political????

Just read a post on Indian Friend Finder Site - QUICK HISTORY OF INDIA by Leather and there she has written that the partition of India at the time of independence was due to the enmity between the Hindu and the Muslims, but is that true? Not as per my knowledge and opinion.

Before the Britishers came to the then geographical landscape, there was no enmity between the two sects and there was not much differences. Though due to the hardliners and the rulers hindu community did face some problems but still the point was not that grave that the partition would have been required.

But the Partition of India is the result of the "Divide and Rule" policy adopted by the Britishers after the 1857 mutiny, when they found that the masses of India accepted the then Mughal Emperor Bahadur Shah 'Jafar' as the Emperor of India and with this they went in for claiming the Independence. For this sole reason, after the failure of that attempt, Bahadur Shah 'Jafar' was shifted to a prison outside the country where he spent last days of his life.

Most of the Inter religion clashes between the hindu and muslim community started only in late 1800 century or the early 1900s. The Divide and Rule Policy of Britishers only delayed the independence of India. If only INC under Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi would have supported the INA headed by Subhash Chandra Bose, India might have probably attained Independence well in 1942. But the same didn't happen.

Moreover the requirement of Partition was further strengthened by the ego clash between Mohd. Ali Jinnah and Jawaharlal Nehru, where Jawaharlal Nehru was adamant on heading the Govt. at the time of Independence, as he was already at that level in INC. On the contrary Mohd. Ali Jinnah was opposing his candidature and had Agreed that the same could be bestowed with Sardar Vallabh Bhai Patel. But Nehru never agreed and there Jinnah Demanded for creation of Pakistan.

These are the hidden truths of Indian History that uncover only when we dwell in the history, and to get the truth out.

(Please try to identify the Creation of Muslim League by Jinnah to get to the roots of differences between Jinnah and Nehru.)

Adieu Mumbai - By a Mumbaiker

Sunday July 1, 2007 went as another milestone date for me, the day my another instinct at Mumbai ended. I Left Mumbai for yet another journey, that I know would conclude at Mumbai only.

Mumbai the way it is for many more has the same place in my life, I started my career in Pune, but then the growth path lead me to Mumbai. Mumbai the City of Dreams, the City that Never Sleeps. The City that makes Millionaires out of Dirts and the City that converts Millions in Dirts.

The day would be yet another mark in my life to yet once again say adieu to Mumbai, and unlike couple of time earlier, when I had ditched saying adieu to Mumbai, this time I have to for sure as the growth path is telling me to do so.

Well I am sayed Adieu to Mumbai only for starting the journey that would once again end at Mumbai only :) Yes Mumbai holds that space in my heart that No Other city does...except for my hometown.

Signing Out with Love to all the Mumbaiites here #:D# to my sweet Mumbaiker friends.....Ane me parat Yenaar Mumbai....aamchi Mumbai ane me Mumbaiker :)

Cheers

In April this year when I was trying to create my blog area on blogger, I identified that this URL that I was attempting to get is already booked and moreover I was shocked to see that the intro aas pasted is nothing but as is copy paste of my intro on another site - http://indianfriendfinder.com/blog/soulitude

Also, this guy copied poems from that site and pasted it as his content, specifically the two poems that he copied and pasted in February 2007 were written by me in Nov-dec 2006.

the overall copy paste that he has done is of three posts from my ORIGINAL CONTENT and may be his other posts also may be copied from somewhere.

Please I request you to take corrective actions on this side

regards

Mayank

गुजारिश

तुझे चाहने की सज़ा पाता हूँ
तेरे ही गम में अपना लहू जलाता हूँ
ना चाहते हुए भी अक्सर तेरे अक्स में
मैं अपनी रौशनी ढूंढें जाता हूँ
रोशनाई कहीँ कम ना पडे
ये सोच के अपने लहू से
मैं ये नज़्म लीखे जाता हूँ
गुजारीश करता हूँ आपसे आज
ना ही करो रुसवा यूं मेरी चाहत को
ना झुकाओ पलकें यूं
भर नफ़रत नीगाहों में
और यही इल्तजा है आज ए सनम
की मरहम बन इस नासूर-ए-दिल का
ले आगोश में लावारीस मेरी इस लाश को
सुकून मीलेगा मेरी रूह को तेरे साथ से
की जीते जी तेरा साथ ना मिल तो क्या
मर कर तेरा साया जो नसीब हुआ